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Issue 8 · Money · August 10, 2026

What Your Parents' Fear of Money Did to You

The silence in the house when a bill arrived. The way one of them read the right-hand side of the menu first. You learned money long before you ever earned any. So how much of your relationship with it is even yours?

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Next Monday · August 17, 2026

Why We Feel Poor Around Our Own Friends

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Why We Resent the People We Take Care Of

You love them and you'd do anything for them–and some dark, hidden part of you wishes they would just stop needing you. Where does that anger come from?

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Sometimes the loudest moral fury lands suspiciously close to the ranter's own temptations. How much of our collective rage is just a way to outrun what we hate in ourselves?

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Why Ordinary People Obey Absurd Rules

Everyone in the room knows the rule makes no sense, and everyone follows it anyway. What are we really afraid of when we go along with what we quietly know is nonsense?

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When Affection Starts To Feel Like Debt

A favor you didn't ask for, a gift you didn't want, and suddenly you owe someone something invisible. How does love turn into a ledger?

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The Quiet Cruelty of Keeping Someone 'Just in Case'

You don't want them now, but you don't want them gone either. What happens to us when we turn people into insurance against our own loneliness?

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